Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Josh Jones and Love...

So-- when I initially interviewed Josh, it was more of a video interview.  My intention was to share that video, but technically, the wind and urth cafe chatter did not help with our sound design, so maybe next time...








Josh is from Portland, Oregon, currently lives in one of my favorite cities, SAN FRANCISCO! Okay, the capitals weren't necessary, but I just get so enthused when I think about SF.

One thing that is relevant about Josh at this point in his life, and maybe since I have met him, which has been several years...is his dire search for TRUE LOVE.

This is all this man talks about.  How he is ready and in search for his love.  Where is this love?  I have complete faith he will find it, find her.. he happens to be quite choosy, but we all have our standards.  

Josh is great, here is his input.
PS-- this is translated from a video, so it may seem a bit drab or out of sorts.  



Josh-- what is the first thing you think of when you hear the word love?
Umm, I just think about the feeling of being in love, and what that means, and the way I can tell I am in love is by feeling at home with somebody.

Are you currently in love?
No- I am not.

How many times have you been in love?
Once

What are your hobbies?
Making music, basketball, snowboarding, sleeping, and cooking.

What do you do for a living?
I create sound effects for video games.

Any games you can brag about?
Um. No.

What do you find most attractive in a women?
A beautiful woman who doesn't think she is beautiful.  A humble woman.  It is very hard to find someone who is genuine, who has no fronts.  To be themselves, no fake laughs, only knows to be themselves.  

What are your turn offs?
A woman who is not beautiful but believes she is.

What was your family upbringing like?
Lots of love.  Parents are still together after 45 years, have great relationships with 4 brothers and sisters. Had a great childhood, was really lucky.  Parents were sensitive and affectionate.

Do you believe in God?
Um, yea.  I think everyone believes in God but they have a different definition of what that means to them.  

What does it mean to you?
God is everything.  Everything we know and don't understand, summed up in one word.

Does whoever you fall in love with need to have the same definition of God?
No

First kiss?
7th grade.  Worst kiss ever. I spit for 3 hours afterwards, I just kept thinking of how gross her germs in my mouth were.  

First love?
29

V card?
Lost virginity at 19...(questionable with his laughs)

Have you ever cheated?
Yes

Why? 
She cheated on me. Felt shitty, but I wasn't in love. It was in high school.  I won't ever cheat ever again.

Favorite book
The Alchemist

Music
Royksopp, Boxer Rebellion

What do you want to do before you die?
I have done everything I wanted to do.  When I was young I dreamed about traveling the world, performing in front of hundreds of people, and falling in love.  

Do you want children?
Maybe one day, one....one and a half.

Any last words?
No because anything I say will sound cheesy...



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Now, when I watch the video- it is quite entertaining.  When I read these words, they are more informative.  Josh understands...
I have a slight responsibility, I am going to help him find his love!
She does not need to live in Sf, she just needs to exist in the way he desires.  

Intentions are set.  Ready, set, go--!


Oh-- and this is his other love, Zod.



more from me later...
::loveveramay










Wednesday, May 2, 2012

So I Admit...

I have been away, far away, just from my blog...
A sin I assume is the worst kind of sin amongst bloggers slash/ writers...

My life has been full, consumed, with events and such other events that I probably couldn't give a well descriptive memory of, okay, just a few-- but we won't go into them. 
they're just for me.

But once and again, I am pulled to my source of curiosity with relationships and love..and here we are.

Again- with another interview.

How lucky am I to come across so many lives that weaves in and out, momentarily, sometimes just foot steps in my memory, and other times stamps in my heart.

Meet Amanda Fields.
She exudes a light force energy that is genuine, pure, and attractive.
She has beautiful red hair, height to the heavens, and words to captivate your attention for hours.






She is a fashion model, TV personality, and actress.
twitter @amandaloyfields

So I picked her brain, and through out the question and answers, I think we both discovered something within each other and for ourselves.


Here is her love.

STATS
25 years young
Gemini (Yes- I happen to like astrology, so shoot me)
Taken by a man for 3.5 years
From North Carolina, currently in LA
Ethnically--diverse. english/irish/scottish/french/german/nativeamerican

5 WORDS TO DESCRIBE ME
intelligent
loud
creative
open minded
savvy

FAVORITES
food/ thai yellow curry with chicken
color/ yellow
season/ fall
hobbies/ watching documentaries/writing/barmethod
song/ gotye, somebody that i used to know.
listen here, if you haven't already...you're sleeping.
books/ love lucy by lucille ball/ bossy pants by tina fey/ it! by paula froelich
quote/ "luck is when preparation meets opportunity" oprah

HOW DO YOU DEFINE LOVE
love is unconditional, unconditional support, full acceptance, dropping everything to help the other person.  love is to grow together, and to support each other in a positive manner.

WHAT DO YOU LOVE
being in love with my boyfriend, doing anything and nothing, as long as it's with him.

FIRST KISS
14 years old- at a high school dance

FIRST LOVE
20 years old- met on myspace

HOW MANY LOVES THUS FAR
2

DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT
yes!

HOW ABOUT SOUL MATES
yes, found him... (lucky girl)

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN BROKEN HEARTED
yes-- was young and naive, needed to learn to communicate more effectively

REQUIREMENTS FOR A PARTNER
honesty/ good listener/ encouraging/ advice/ support/ humor/ intellectual stimulation

FAMILY UPBRINGING
positive loving upbringing, Christian influence, parents are still together

TURN OFFS
narcissism/ insulting/judgmental/liars

TURN ONS
wonderful kissers/ can make me laugh/ good with children

WHAT SUSTAINS YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP
faith in God/ trust/ honesty/ strong open communication

DO YOU WANT TO BE MARRIED
absolutely

THOUGHTS  ON DIVORCE
try to better assess the relationship before marriage, but if the relationship is damaging in anyway, get out to protect yourself

THINGS TO ACCOMPLISH BEFORE THE FOREVER SHUTEYE
visit australia
have 2-3 children
have own TV show

THINGS THAT ARE MOST IMPORTANT INCLUDE
family/boyfriend/friends/health/career/relationship with God

WHO DO YOU LOOK UP TO
mother
blanche ravenelle/ first dance teacher. she was an inspirational, loving, strong leader, who pushed me beyond my limits- always in a positive manner

DO YOU BELIEVE IN GOD
yes-- God is Love

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yes. more questions and answers are coming...isn't amanda fantastic?

i love doing these interviews, if you want to be interviewed, just let me know.

::loveveramay
loveveramay@gmail.com